vma: Move cow decision earlier (v2)

Collect VMAs into COW-groups. This is done by checking each pstree_item's
VMA list in parallel with the parent one and finding VMAs that have
chances to get COW pages. The vma->parent pointer is used to tie such
areas together.

v2:
* Reworded comment about pvmas
* Check for both vmas to be private, not only child
* Handle helper tasks

Signed-off-by: Pavel Emelyanov <xemul@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrei Vagin <avagin@virtuozzo.com>